by joieseldon | Sep 17, 2019 | Blog, Emotional Intelligence
“I have written 11 books, but each time I think, ‘Uh oh, they’re going to find out now. I’ve run a game on everybody, and they’re going to find me out.'” Maya Angelou Imposter Syndrome affects even the most accomplished of people,...
by joieseldon | Sep 5, 2019 | Blog, Emotional Intelligence
“I want to be in the arena. I want to be brave with my life. And when we make the choice to dare greatly, we sign up to get our asses kicked. We can choose courage or we can choose comfort, but we can’t have both. Not at the same time.” Brené Brown One of...
by joieseldon | Aug 23, 2019 | Blog, Boundaries, Emotional Intelligence, Stress Management
Recently I worked with a client who is the Problem Solver for a HUGE tech project in a giant corporation involving many stakeholders. Because the deadlines for completion of various phases are based on ideals, not reality, the pressure is intense on everyone involved....
by joieseldon | Mar 5, 2019 | Blog, Emotional Intelligence
There is a common behavior we humans have that, for the most part, does not serve us. We do all we can to avoid pain. “Well, duh,” you may think. Who wants to experience pain?! No one. The problem is, life is impossible without it. We forget that pain, be it physical...
by joieseldon | Dec 6, 2018 | Blog, Emotional Intelligence, Stress Management
Are there certain things that make you crazy? Where you feel powerless to do anything about it? While I have been heartened by some recent events that give me hope for the future, I continue to be horrified and baffled at the violence and destructive actions so many...